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What are you doing with your life?
LifeSurfer gives me passion and sattisfaction. With lifeSurfer I combine the things I like to do: writing, reading talking with a lot of people and traveling. But this gives me extra amount of sattisfaction because the core of LifeSurfer motivates me so.
As a survivor myself I know what it takes to create the live you love so deeply due or despite what you've been through and I would like to help you with that too.
Two of the most important persons in my life are my two children. They are funny, creative, strong, wise and very good builders.
They challenge me just to go that extra mile to get the best out of me as a mother and woman. They are the greatest gift I could ever wish for.
Are you abused?
Yes, I kind of revealed it earlier but I am an expert by experience on both sexual abuse and domestic violence. Do you want to know more about me? Click the following link.
What are you working on?
Currently I am working on new workshops, a vlog and a future facebookseries with the title: " survivorstreet". Are you a survivor with a positive attitude or message? Please contact me.
Can I ask you to come and give a motivational speech?
I would love to!! Click on the following link to read more about how to book me as a speaker.
Do you coach other survivors?
Yes because it's something that fulfills me to give other survivors that extra push so they can create a fulfilling life. Every month I give some coachingsessions for free in exchange for a testimonial. Do you want to know if you are eligible for the free coaching sessions?
Can we follow you?
On the internet? Yes! That would be great! On the street... not so much. Beneath this page you can find my social media icons. You can follow me on facebook, pinterest or youtube here you are among the first to know about to receive all kinds of tips that will help you move forward.
How do you stay this happy with all that you've been through?
The question that started it all ;-) I believe that the most important thing is to have an attitude of gratitude, the awareness of " this too shall pass", a strong sense of responsibility for myself and others, the longing to live life to it's fullest, and knowing that there are more beautiful moments in live than harder ones. And all else will you learn on my blog, vlog or workshops!
Are you single?
Yes. But before you send all those cute brothers, nephews and other handsom man my way: I don't mind being single. For years I chose to be single and spend my time on my personal development and now I am just so busy, which is a choice too, ofcourse. It comes when the time is right I believe. ( But I don't mind to make an exception for dark-haired man with an English, American, Irish, Scottish accent ;-) )
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